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Lately this blog hasn’t been sounding too happy. To be honest I’m not depressed but I’m certainly dissapointed! This wasn’t how I envisioned my second year in Korea.

And not everything is bad. I met some wonderful people here and outside school life it’s pretty damn good.

Yesterday I had one of the best days in a long time. A bunch of us in the neighbourhood got together for a small bbq… and it was grand! In the park and all afternoon. Laughing. Eating. Meeting new people in my neck of the woods.

This evening I went to central Seoul to help my friend find Korean class … we didn’t make it there in time.  Instead we had coffee and met up with another English teacher for dinner at this tiny Italian restaurant. Afterwards I split up from the little group to get to line 5 and on the way popped into the Body Shop.

Walking through the city at night I remembered this was how I envisioned my second year in Korea. By the time I finally go on the subway and made it home I noticed a few people I had met the previous day and said a quick hi! The girl in the group turned to me and said, “How did a nice girl like you end up here?” All jokes aside, somehow, I’d managed to fall far from the dream. So the only real question now is what does a girl do when life turns out differently than you’d expected?

I’ve heard it recently that today is only a result of what you were focused on yesterday. The only way to change life is to start with the now… change now and the future will change as well.



{May 30, 2009}   A Mixed bag…

During the weeks I’m constantly going so lately I’ve been keeping it mellow on the weekends. This weekend was no exception! It’s the end of Saturday and after skyping the folks, to let them know I’m still alive and Seoul hasn’t been nuked by the North Koreans yet, I met up with a friend and went to Costco.

Costco is great and yes … I’m over Korean food for the most part … I believe I’m well enough justified, I’ve been cooking since I was a kid! I almost even entered the culinary arts, but that’s a completely different story.

Well, let’s just say that Costco in Korea although typically “Costco-like” you will be rudely awaken to the fact that you’re still in Korea. When you’re moving along through the isles with your Costco cart and someone rams into you with their wide-arsed Costco cart or tries squeeze themselves and their carts in front of you. OR, and yes I have literally had someone do this to me, keep walking into you with their cart… the illusion is broken and yes you’re still in Korea!  But never-the-less it’s Costco and being able to get certain things that are familiar so it’s always worth the venture.

The other odd thing about this trip to Costco was after continually seeing this other two foreigners I finally said something to them at the frozen food section. You see they were debating whether or not to get the frozen tortilla shells. For the most part if I make eye contact with anyone I tend to smile. These two strangers looked awkward and uncomfortable … hmm, I never got this reaction as a child! Some how in adulthood we become shocked and aloof at any communication outside of our own nucleus… why is that?

After Costco I decided to skip the subway and take a cab instead. What should have been less than a 15 minute cab ride turned out to be over 45 minutes. Even though the cab driver had used his handy dandy little navigation gremlin thing we managed to get onto the freeway and found ourselves in Incheon! And no it wasn’t my lack of clear directions or the fact that I showed him the exact subway station which was all written in Korean!

As the meter ran up to ₩30,000 we were finally heading in the right direction! Finally at the traffic light the driver turns to me and says “oh, so solly!” and I kinda smiled and looked over at the meter. He says “oh no no! man won, man won!” Which is ₩10,000 which is roughly what the cost of my ride should have been.

The poor man then tries to explain this is his 30th day on the job and he’s very embarrassed. I reassured him that it was ok… and frankly although slightly inconvenient it wasn’t the end of the world! My frozen foods were still pretty solidly frozen.

The nice thing about the whole experience was that I’d been shown the scenic route and part of the countryside … it’s very easy to forget how nice Spring is in Korea when all you see is concrete! My first year in Korea I lived in Incheon and often went out to Kanghwa-do (Kanghwa Island) to my friend and her hubby’s tea house. The drive reminded me how much I missed those weekends in Kanghwa-do!

It’s so easy to get stuck in the daily grind never venturing past the concrete jungle and under ground labyrinths of subway terminals and catacombs to the world that exists above ground.



{March 1, 2009}   Orientation Week…

So after landing here in the Land of the Morning Calm and passing through customs I finally made it to the meeting place. On the way I had a nice surprise and bumped into an old co-worker!

We waited for about an hour or so till the buses arrived to take us to the compound. Good time to check my email and facebook!!

It seemed like the ride would last forever but we finally made it to the Hyundai Learning Center… aka the compound. Where I will room with two other girls.



After a year of sitting here in Korea I open this blog and realize that no matter how good my intention is to blog about my year in Korea that I have failed… er, well!  I was never good at faithfully keeping a dairy, so it’s not that surprising to see I have lapsed with this blog.

Just as well as since it was the best of times but it was the worst of times but mainly due to having a death in the family and not being with my family during the grieving not that I was good at that either … but then again no one needs to remember that sort of thing.

So… to make this a fresh start at the anniversary of it’s creation I have decided to post this comic strip like picture of me.
I had way too much fun with the comic life application on my mac this morning… way too much :)

It’s been a long void without creativity and I’m standing on the abyss that will come into an overload of creativity.

The year of 2008 has a lot of hope and promise attached to it… it can only go up from here. Good bye to 2007, you’re misery I live no more!



{October 19, 2007}   Visual Seoul



video of various photos & video taken in Seoul, 2007-2008



{September 28, 2007}   Busan’s Haendae Beach at Night

Haeundae Beach, Busan South Korea
panorama view at night during the week of CH’USOK, Sept 2007



{February 25, 2007}   Coming to Korea!

Finally… I have arrived!

Two planes and one stop over at San Francisco for what was suppose to be a 2 hr stop that turned into a 3 hr stop. Thankfully, I am here now.

It’s all very interesting. It’s nothing I expected and yet very real and here.

I have been blessed to meet many people…great people who have shown me various things, places and meals. I keep meeting interesting people and that’s just in the expat community.

Life is exciting and I am a grinning like an idiot all the time so much so that my cheeks have perma-blush!



{February 19, 2007}   The Waiting Game

So, this is what the great wait is like…

Well, it’s been later than expected, but soon I shall arrive in the Land of the Morning Calm.

First, it was waiting for my visa confirmation, then my actual visa and now… I shall arrive in Korea at the end of Lunar New Year’s celebration.

This is when Seoul is mostly deserted due to the fact that Koreans return to their ancestral roots … or at least that is what I was told and hence my arrival date moved back yet another week. Guess I’ll soon find out!



et cetera